Temptations keep us dependent upon God. Just as the roots grow stronger when the wind blows against a tree, so everytime you stand up to a temptation you become more like Jesus. When you stumble--which you will-- it is not fatal. Instead of giving in or giving up, look up to God, expecting him to help you, and remember that reward that is waiting for you: " When people are tempted and still continue strong, they should be happy. After they have proved their faith, God will reward them with life forever" ( James 1:12 )